“I can’t do anything right.”
“Why bother? I am just going to mess it up anyway.”
“Nothing goes well for me. I have too many problems.”
It’s been an interesting season for my youngest son.
Most of us would agree that almost 13 is a tough age in general. Add to it a growing awareness of his differences and challenges, and what you get is a man-boy trying desperately to figure out his place in the world.
As he struggles, one thing is becoming increasingly clear – the desire to give up versus the desire to fight through the obstacles he faces daily is one of the most important factors in his overall mental health and development.
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Because of this, I have been looking for ways to help bolster his confidence and instill in him a sense of resiliency that will help carry him into adulthood.
Right now, there is only one real outside influence that I have seen have any effect whatsoever – powerful stories about kids who may be underdogs, but fight back, choose kindness and never give-up.
He can identify with these characters. He can see the obstacles they face and how they tackle them.
With this in mind, I have been searching for new and engaging stories of adversity and excellence to use together as read-alouds.
Candlewick Press made it easy on me.
I have been a fan of Candlewick Press for years. Not only are their picture books absolutely beautiful, but the quality of stories is excellent. As my boys have grown into more chapter book territory, I have been thrilled to see the variety of options they also provide for older children.
Using the new Fall Catalog, I selected several books that seemed most in line with my goal of celebrating resiliency and overcoming adversity.
Using Engaging Books To Teach Resiliency
Here are the Candlewick Press Books I am using this year to help inspire my son and encourage him to remain strong in the face of adversity.
This is a book about memory and loss and the destructive nature of secrets, but also about the way friendship, truth, and perseverance have the ability to knit a torn-apart world back together. This novel touches on secrets and mysteries — and the power of connections with family and friends.
In this coming-of-age tale, award-winning author T. R. Simon champions the strength of a people to stand up for justice. A powerful fictionalized account of Zora Neale Hurston’s childhood adventures explores the idea of collective memory and the lingering effects of slavery.
No one in her family will tell Merci what’s going on, so she’s left to her own worries, while also feeling all on her own at school. In a coming-of-age tale full of humor and wisdom, award-winning author Meg Medina gets to the heart of the confusion and constant change that defines middle school — and the steadfast connection that defines family.
From the moment of his birth, Elliot’s life has been governed by fear of almost everything, even of his own fear — a beast that holds him prisoner in his room. With plot twists and turns that keep readers on the edge of their seats, multi-award-winning author Kevin Brooks offers a high-suspense exploration of fear and what it means to truly be afraid.
1968: Today’s Authors Explore a Year of Rebellion, Revolution, and Change edited by Marc Aronson and Susan Campbell Bartoletti
As we face our own moments of crisis and division, 1968 reminds us that we’ve clashed before and found a way forward — and that looking back can help map a way ahead.
Teaching Our Kids Resiliency With Powerful Stories
I think we are off to a great start with these choices. Each of these books describes events and circumstances that require strength and resiliency from the main character or society in general, with encouraging results.
This is exactly what I want for my son.
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Shawna Wingert is a former training and development professional turned education specialist, and has homeschooled her two children for the last ten years.Shawna has written four books about homeschooling unique learners and has been featured in homeschooling discussions on Today.com, The Mighty, Simple Homeschool, My Little Poppies and Raising Lifelong Leaners.
You can find her online here at DifferentByDesignLearning.com.